"Do for one what you wish you could do for them all."
As cutesy as that phrase may seem, it's become a lifeline for
me at Back2Back. Giving your life's work to care for orphans can
sometimes feel like trying to empty a lake, one cup at a time. There are
a reported 163 million orphans in the world. Seeing their faces, knowing
their names, meeting them yourself-- it changes you. You know you can't
go back to a life of not caring, but you can feel paralyzed by the great need
and your human limitations. So you do for one what you wish you could do
for them all.
Back2Back has taken this seriously. Of the 163 million,
Back2Back's Child Sponsorship Program provides for 528. Each one needs
tutoring, therapy, dentist appointments, and above all, love. We've
devoted ourselves to caring for these 528 the way we wish we could for all of
them.
No country has this been harder to do than in India. India
alone has 31 million orphans (around 1/5 of the orphans in the world).
The concept of "doing for one what you wish you could do for them
all" gets more difficult in the face of such need. We've felt the
pressure and worked hard to remain faithful to what we know works.
A few months ago we had to end a relationship we had with the
directors of an orphanage in India. It was one of the toughest decisions we've made, but without
transparency and trust in the relationship, we couldn't continue to support
them. Leaving the children in the hands of someone we didn't trust was
the most difficult part of ending the partnership. The phrase "do for one
what you wish you could do for them all" kept going through my mind.
I felt trapped.
A few months later we learned that the orphanage fell apart.
The children returned to living with some family member or friend who at
one point in time had decided they could no longer keep them. It was exactly
the kind of open door we needed.
Our staff in India tracked down every last child and traveled all over the state to meet with
each of their guardians. We explained what happened in our relationship with the
directors of the orphanage where the child had lived. We also told them
about the land Back2Back just acquired, and the 3 homes we are building to
house children in family settings. We invited the children to come live
with us, and promised we would care for them as well as we would our own
children. Each of them said yes.
We then went to the school where the children will be attending
next year. We explained the types of situations these children are coming
from, and how most of them are behind in school. The principal, full of
compassion, offered to extend classes for the children who are behind into the
evenings until the children are caught up-- truly a miracle!
31 million is an impossibly large number. But for these 10
children, we are relentless in making a real difference in their lives. So that's what
we're going to do. One at a time.
"Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn't he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it?" Luke 15:4